Yamaha DTXpress/DTXplorer/DTXtreme

hi , i switched from a explorer to a dtxpres II and i hate it . I
can't find/make a usable high hate closed or open could someone
/anyone help me with some settings , i 've tried all the kits i found
on this site .. i need to play live at our local church and i'm
thinking of going back to the dtxplorer witch has leesss sounds but
way more realistic . please  help . Or am i just to give up on it?? 
OK
1 . love the explorer sounds pretty ok
2. love the express snare/kick/toms i like the crash i made, the china etc
3 haaate the high hat sounds electric unreal awfull 
4 i have to use only one drum module

SO could someone who has the express II give me some really go0d high
hat setings/sounds 'n stuff please!!