Thanks for the feedback. For what it's worth, this morning I got a pretty convincing answer to my question from my brother-in-law. He is a violinist, classically trained, makes his living as a musician, etc. He told me I must put pressure on myself by scheduling a performance for other people. Whether I perform for friends, family, do some busking or whatever - he says that I must commit myself to "a concert" as he puts it, prepare for it, and then do it despite the nauseating stress of it. Hmmm. Well, I think I get his point. Actually, it's not the first time he has given me this advice, but I didn't really believe it before. The last time I really learned a bunch of tunes well was when I was in the "band" at work. It was just a bunch of people who wanted to do some 3 chord rock for the office Christmas party. I did not necessarily love the material, nor did the players have great chemistry with each other. But I did learn the tunes, played them start to end, and felt a sense of accomplishment. So I guess I'll bite the bullet and post an add in the local entertainment tabloid. Vernon Graner wrote: > This seems to be pretty common here. There seem to be alot of us who had > lots of fun being involved in music earlier in our lives and are trying > to "get back that lovin' feeling" as it were.. :) > > I suggest you do a bit of searching and try to find others of a similar > nature. Drop an ad into a local paper that is looking for other > "semi-retired" musicians who might be willing to get together once a week > or so to just play and have fun making mistakes where no one cares if you > do. > > This is exactly what I did when I decided to try and get back into music. > For most of us, music is collaborative... The old "the sum is greater > than the parts" type thing. It's hard to sit in front of a sequencer and > be inspired. Also, so many of the things that used to inspire us were > closely tied to the events of our youth. The thrill of a new love, pain > of a loss, anticipation of something good. Many of those are either gone > or seem to have lost the sharp edges. As we get older and more cynical, > events seem to have a soft-focus feel. You just don't get as excited > about stuff anymore... :) > > I've found that meeting with others in similar situations has really been > helpful. A sort of group musical therapy. You talk while you setup, you > reminisce about old gigs or songs you used to play and then you work at > trying to pickup songs the others know, it gives you something to look > forward to during the week. All around it's a good feeling just to be > making music again. > > With the group of folks I jam with, the goal is to find enough common > musical interest to create a 15 to 20 song set list and then try and play > some little hole in the wall venue once every other month or so. I feel > like I should be able to handle the heavy schedule of 6 gigs a year! :D > > Well, thats my $0.02 worth, hopefully I didn't bore everyone with my stab > at pop-psychology. :) > > Vern > > -- > Vern Graner CNE/CNA/SSE | "If the network is down, then you're > Senior Systems Engineer | obviously incompetent so why are we > Texas Information Services | paying you? Of course, if the network > vern@... www.txis.com | is up, then we obviously don't need > Cell 507-7851 Desk 328-8947 | you, so why are we paying you?" VLG > > > > dj@... said: > > Hey everyone. I am in some kind of weird slump this past year. I am > > recovering from injuries caused by getting hit by a car, but my rut > > predates the injuries. > > > > I started playing drums when I was about 12, but gave it up for some > > silly reasons. I kept up my guitar playing over the years. Last year I > > decided to try some recording with my computer. I have a fairly decent > > home studio based on Cubase SX, an M-Audio Delta 66 sound card, a small > > Behringer mixer, some studio monitors, etc. I bought a DTXpress II kit > > a few months ago because I got sick of keying drum parts into Cubase > > with my keyboard (midi controller). > > > > For most of the past year I seem to get almost nothing truly musical > > accomplished. I tinker around with my guitar, fool with my bass and > > keyboard, whack away on the drums a bit, record some little bits and > > pieces, and never really get beyond that. Perhaps I have purchased too > > much gear that is fun to play with, and have lost my focus as a result. > > > > I think one problem may be that I don't play live with other musicians. > > I have worked myself into a kind of mental block over this, due to lack > > of confidence. I always end up feeling that my chops are just not good > > enough, so I stay home and practice - sort of - or maybe I just tinker > > some more, and end up back where I started. > > > > So, although I guess nobody will have the magic answer, my question is: > > Have any of you got into a similar rut, and broken out of it? Any > > suggestions? Do I need a brain transplant? > > > > - Davey J. - > > > > > > > > Community email addresses: > > Post message: DTXpress@onelist.com > > Subscribe: DTXpress-subscribe@onelist.com > > Unsubscribe: DTXpress-unsubscribe@onelist.com > > List owner: DTXpress-owner@onelist.com > > > > Shortcut URL to this page: > > http://www.onelist.com/community/DTXpress > > > > Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to > http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/ > > > > > > > > > *Yahoo! 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Re: [DTXpress] I'm in a musical RUT! Suggestions, please
2003-07-09 by dj@arrowsash.com
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