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lets be nice to each other for a change (spanish inquisition thread)

2000-12-17 by John Matthews

KAB said

"You would not BELIEVE the number of times that my wife has been stopped in
the streets of London, New York, and other so-called cosmopolitan cities by
complete strangers who then proceed to make comments -- as if the children
they were speaking about were deaf and dumb or stupid or something -- about
how 'very wrong' it was of my wife to make the 'great mistake' of marrying a
'coloured gentleman'; and shouldn't she please have put a little bit more
thought into 'how difficult it is going to be for the children'. My children
are perfectly happy, thank you, with the only difficulties they face in life
coming from those who have made it necessary for them to deal with this
crass kind of insensitivity. When the first complete stranger says this it
is something of a surprise. But ... when you have been married nearly 20
years and have four such children one really begins to lose patience."

This kind of behavior is indeed very sad and regrettable (forgive my
spelling) and is certainly something I nor anyone I know would do or
condone. It is not solely a problem for persons of black African descent
though, for example, a friend at work, I know (He is English) is married to
a Korean (a very nice lady), they have two kids. When they go to Korea to
visit her relatives, people in the street shout "Yankee whore" to her.

So racism can be inflicted upon all races by all other races (though it
shouldnt be that way). This is  very very different to simple harmless
humour of the "its only in Spanish so cant be important" sort of thing.

It's nearly Christmas- and to paraphrase Douglas Adams- "a guy (named Jesus)
was once nailled to a tree for saying lets be nice to each other for a
change".

So, lets be nice to each other for a change eh?

Cheers

John

Groovey band website
http://www.grooveyband.co.uk/

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