KAB said "You would not BELIEVE the number of times that my wife has been stopped in the streets of London, New York, and other so-called cosmopolitan cities by complete strangers who then proceed to make comments -- as if the children they were speaking about were deaf and dumb or stupid or something -- about how 'very wrong' it was of my wife to make the 'great mistake' of marrying a 'coloured gentleman'; and shouldn't she please have put a little bit more thought into 'how difficult it is going to be for the children'. My children are perfectly happy, thank you, with the only difficulties they face in life coming from those who have made it necessary for them to deal with this crass kind of insensitivity. When the first complete stranger says this it is something of a surprise. But ... when you have been married nearly 20 years and have four such children one really begins to lose patience." This kind of behavior is indeed very sad and regrettable (forgive my spelling) and is certainly something I nor anyone I know would do or condone. It is not solely a problem for persons of black African descent though, for example, a friend at work, I know (He is English) is married to a Korean (a very nice lady), they have two kids. When they go to Korea to visit her relatives, people in the street shout "Yankee whore" to her. So racism can be inflicted upon all races by all other races (though it shouldnt be that way). This is very very different to simple harmless humour of the "its only in Spanish so cant be important" sort of thing. It's nearly Christmas- and to paraphrase Douglas Adams- "a guy (named Jesus) was once nailled to a tree for saying lets be nice to each other for a change". So, lets be nice to each other for a change eh? Cheers John Groovey band website http://www.grooveyband.co.uk/ mail to : chickenjohn@...
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lets be nice to each other for a change (spanish inquisition thread)
2000-12-17 by John Matthews
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