FWIW, I am also running lazyaw, but with milter-greylist-4.2.7. Lots of ='s were successfully deduplicated. So this might well have been fixed between 4.0 and 4.2.7.
I do see one oddity, where the non-AUTO entry for user2 has persisted in greylist.db (dumpfreq 1h; several hours have passed), but both messages were accepted.
racl greylist default delay 10m autowhite 14d
94.23.3.184 =carleton.edu@...> <user2@...> 1337962747
94.23.3.184 =carleton.edu@...> <user1@...> 1339172977 AUTO
Original delivery attempt deferred:
May 25 11:08:54 mx2 milter-greylist: q4PG8q7h015401: addr shen.garance.fr[94.23.3.184] from =carleton.edu@...> to <user1@...> delayed for 00:10:00 (ACL 190)
May 25 11:08:54 mx2 sendmail[15401]: q4PG8q7h015401: from=<newsletter-return-87-user1=carleton.edu@...>, size=0, class=0, nrcpts=0, proto=ESMTP, daemon=MTA, relay=shen.garance.fr [94.23.3.184]
May 25 11:09:07 mx2 milter-greylist: q4PG96T0015451: addr shen.garance.fr[94.23.3.184] from =carleton.edu@...> to <user2@...> delayed for 00:10:00 (ACL 190)
May 25 11:09:07 mx2 sendmail[15451]: q4PG96T0015451: from=<newsletter-return-87-user2=carleton.edu@...>, size=0, class=0, nrcpts=0, proto=ESMTP, daemon=MTA, relay=shen.garance.fr [94.23.3.184]
Retry succeeded:
May 25 11:29:34 mx2 milter-greylist: q4PGTXgu023038: addr 94.23.3.184 from =carleton.edu@...> rcpt <user1@...>: autowhitelisted for 336:00:00
May 25 11:29:34 mx2 sendmail[23038]: q4PGTXgu023038: from=<newsletter-return-87-user1=carleton.edu@...>, size=21976, class=-60, nrcpts=1, msgid=<20120525153104.19027.qmail@...>, proto=ESMTP, daemon=MTA, relay=shen.garance.fr [94.23.3.184]
May 25 11:29:36 mx2 sendmail[23038]: q4PGTXgu023038: Milter add: header: X-Greylist: Delayed for 00:20:40 by milter-greylist-4.2.7 (mx2.its.carleton.edu [137.22.198.35]); Fri, 25 May 2012 11:29:36 -0500 (CDT)
May 25 11:29:36 mx2 sendmail[23096]: q4PGTXgu023038: to=<user1@...>, delay=00:00:02, xdelay=00:00:00, mailer=esmtp, pri=249976, relay=mail.carleton.edu. [137.22.198.42], dsn=2.0.0, stat=Sent (Ok: queued as 163A339C2B)
May 25 11:29:37 mx2 milter-greylist: q4PGTacW023103: addr 94.23.3.184 from =carleton.edu@...> rcpt <user2@...>: autowhitelisted for more 336:00:00
May 25 11:29:38 mx2 sendmail[23103]: q4PGTacW023103: from=<newsletter-return-87-user2=carleton.edu@...>, size=21976, class=-60, nrcpts=1, msgid=<20120525153104.19027.qmail@...>, proto=ESMTP, daemon=MTA, relay=shen.garance.fr [94.23.3.184]
May 25 11:29:39 mx2 sendmail[23128]: q4PGTacW023103: to=<user2@...>, delay=00:00:02, xdelay=00:00:00, mailer=esmtp, pri=249976, relay=mail.carleton.edu. [137.22.198.42], dsn=2.0.0, stat=Sent (Ok: queued as 9A94839C25)
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Rich Graves http://claimid.com/rcgraves
Carleton.edu Sr UNIX and Security Admin