Bc2000 (for the BCF2000 & BCR2000)

ive tried and tried for the past week to control SX3 parameters via 
NRPN's to take advantage of the "14 bit resolution". Now, im not 
very good with MIDI, so im not even sure if im wording things 
correctly. This is the settings ive tried:

MIDI Date Type: NRPN
Send channel: 1
NRPN no.: 1

Ctrl Mode: Absolute 14bit (ive tried all the other just in case)

in SX3 via the Generic Remote

MIDI Input: BCR2000

MIDI Status: CTRL NRPN
MIDI Channel: 1
Address: 1
Flags: R,T

Since i havent done this before, ive basically taken an educated 
guess based on me being able to control the parameters via CC's, and 
whatever i can find on the net. 

i need someone to set the record straight for me, im losing sleep 
over this!!!!!