Miss Conception is cross with her purposes?
2001-11-04 by Tony Thompson
Hello Kool (and anyone else out there!) > I.m seriously beginning to think that perhaps at the bottom of this little > exchange between us -- which is surely now getting rather pointless -- is > maybe the fact that you've got me pegged as some ignorant American who > desperately needs to be educated about the ways of the British. Well ... > the Americans on this list are pretty clear by now that I ain't no American. Whew! I'm beginning to think I should have bought a box set of emoticons (which I note I haven't used at all where I should have done!) instead of the box set of cross purposes. I wasn't being entirely serious at all and certainly didn't have you pegged as either American or ignorant. If that's how it came across my sincere apologies. I don't have any idea where you are from! As for my own pedigree, my mother's side were all staunch British establishment-hating Irish Republicans, with her father running guns across to 'the lads' in his younger days, while my father's background (him being orphaned atthe age of 5) is a little more murky, with his mother at least being from St Petersburg. I hope you'll see that with this kind of background I find the whole area of national identity and culture absolutely fascinating and feel very much that current UK culture, for all its faults, does allow me to celebrate my differentness along with all the other people in my country from diverse backgrounds. I probably overreact unconsciously to perceived lack of understanding of the UK because I feel there is so much to celebrate here which people should know about - so I'm sorry if I've offended anyone on this list in the process. It amounted in my mind to no more than gentle teasing. Nonetheless, I feel that at this time we all ought to be learning more about each other and talking to as many people as possible and clearing up as many misconceptions as possible. Even if this process is uncomfortable at times it comes way ahead of dropping cluster bombs or sending anthrax through the post in my book. I've just been on the phone to a Trinidadian musician friend in London who is reading lots of Louis Farrakhan and desperately wants to discuss all these ideas with people, which puts some of the leftwing politicos I know (black and white) into a serious spin. But I have to say we're both getting a lot out of sharing ideas. for the record my own outlook is probably closest to Buddhist if you have to put it in any box at all and I'm involved in stuff like Reiki healing. Maybe I'm weird and off the wall, but I'm reasonably happy with it. And I do make a regular (more or less) practice of wishing the whole world well in meditation. So I wish you all well, her and now, without reservation. I should also say that regard Americans (alongside West Indians) as being by and large the most genuinely courteous individuals I have ever met. The problem with the US is it is so big and populous, such an all-embracing environment of itself that the outside world has been pushed to the back burner for too long. My view is that British people not knowing about the outside world is something we really have to work hard on when we have such comparatively good access to information about other cultures. > >> What I do believe is true is that the >> English are (slowly) developing a better sense of their place in the world > You mean apart from being the 51st state of the Union!! (That was a joke, > OK!!) Well, joke taken, the general infatuation of UK opinion makers and leaders with US attitudes does seriously concern me, though I'd also be concerned if they were infatuated with the EU or the Organisation of African States...we need to be working out our own set of ideas, not being point man for George W. Bush or anyone else in the diplomatic jungle. > _I_ keep talking relative densities of blooms per acre distributed across > the terrain while YOU keep talking the practical nitty gritty of what it > takes to make and gather good pickable flowers. Don't see how one set of > truths at these different scales in any way contradicts the other set. Does > that make any better sense?!! Well yes, my problem is basically that I'm just not interested in that kind of big macro picture of itself, whereas you clearly are to some extent. This comes of over exposure to politicos and regular TV documentary exposes of another crisis in something or other. I suppose I have a feeling when people bring out sets of facts like that that the next step is going to be 'something must be done' because I've heard it so many times before, when to me the answer is clear - that everything in the end comes down to the individual and his responsibility for his own actions. My prejudice, totally - I was reading more into what you were saying than was there. > And ... here's the point. WHY should he have regarded his posh background > as some inherent kind of disadvantage to him unless he'd noticed that there > weren't very many people like him and with his background in his business? > The music business was a haven for those struggling to do better and end up > better than they'd started, and music was to them a viable way to do this. > I'm not saying they were consciously trying to climb the social scale ... > I'm just saying that they were prepared to work very hard in the music > business to achieve results and get a viable career. Well, here I'd have not so much to disagree with you as to suggest that he was far more influenced by the general leftwing climate of the times, where being working class was a little flag you could wave about to excuse all kinds of inverted snobbery and handing over responsiblity for your life to other people - the time I have heard described in a discussion of radical politics as the land of 'Speaking as a' - you know, 'Speaking as a working class feminist' 'Speaking as a gay man', being the kind of things that would preface any speech in a competitive attempt to present the speaker's credentials as having been done down by the system. Peter Gabriel is a nice guy who probably came from a happy supportive home and didn't have any flag to wave around, so felt guilty! So, Kool - are we any closer to understanding each other here? I've just finished an experimental remix of a Nigerian songwriter's track ahead of time, so this string of cross purposes can't have totally used up my energies! Be well Tony Thompson