On 16.06.2005, at 02:58, TazmnianDv@... wrote:
>>> It´s a shame to loose very valuable people because the weird admin.
>>> politics here.
>>
>> It's an even bigger shame not to be able to handle the heat in the
>> kitchen....
>
> ...So the LUG moderators are above that - and generally do a good and
> reasonable job. But they have their attitudes and prejudices too...
I agree but would like to throw in that I do not see a problem with
the human nature but with the nature of mailing lists, which are a
very special kind of communication. I mean, we cannot invent a new
and somehow unpersonal form of communication and blame people if they
do not perfectly handle it according to our own personal imaginations.
Just three examples which might illustrate what I want to say:
I moderated a professional pre-press list with about 200 subscribers
for amateurs and professionals. There was not much to do but an
occasionally "please come back to the subject, we cannot follow you".
I moderated a kids list for scientific questions, officially for kids
between 12 and 14 years. There were just few, but some older boys
started to make subtile terror. The others handled that somehow but I
really ran into problems because I felt like a teacher in their
school. My brain said "let them learn to cope with that" and my heart
said "fire those little bastards". Btw, I took the name Gabriel as
the moderators name, which turned out as a silly idea. The kids
checked immediately what was meant and the bad boys didn't like nor
respect angels :-)
The German 4D list is a forum for database developers of all flavours
who use this environment. Some play just a little, some deal with
mission-critical stuff. List owner is the software manufacturer,
moderator and "wisest man" regarding the program is the CEO - and
that is not a small company! Never saw flames there, the list is not
moderated. If you start getting nasty you would not be thrown out but
never ever get a reply to one of your future problems from anybody on
the list. You have to return to direct communication and for most
problems that requires a maintainance agreement (payed, of course).
The 4D list I mentioned above has a rare form of platform wars,
integrated in daily life. People fight by trying to bite their own
ass and then ask the manufacturer if it hurts. That is because most
of them develop on and for both platforms - their clients say which
version they want :-)
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I admire people who moderate the LUG and participate at the same
time. The moderators are accepted but often put in the role of "the
people behind with more power than they deserve" . If a moderator has
a problem with Logic or writes just some nonsense for fun that
irritates many members. Human nature.
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Mh, off-topic lists are not good for me. You have to stop me somehow
to avoid finding a Peter-ized version of Macbeth here some day... :o)
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Peter Ostry