Yamaha DTXpress/DTXplorer/DTXtreme

Hi all,

i'm a new member from The Netherlands and i just bought the DTXpress 
III (standard) and connected it...

First of all i'm a geek when it comes to setting up electronic 
devices (such as a drum module :)

The problem is crosstalk and i really do not know how to get rid of 
it...it's with hihat/snare and tom1/snare.
Other problem is the hihat controller...i must really stamp on it to 
get the closed hihat..what's there to do?

I don't know what self rejecting and rejecting is...the manual is too 
difficult for someone who isn't that good in English and don't know 
words like rejection en stuff like that...

Is there someone (from The Netherlands) who can help me setting up 
this device over an instant messaging program or something?

Thanks in advance,
Boy Hekman
Netherlands